8 Complaint

8 Complaint

A. Do not complain, because every wards you are complaining is toward GOD, since every person, environment, situations, visible, invisible is controlled by GOD.

Phl 2:14 Do all things without protests and arguments;
1Co 10:10 And do not say evil things against the Lord, as some of them did, and destruction overtook them.
Isa 45:7 I am the giver of light and the maker of the dark; causing blessing, and sending troubles; I am the Lord, who does all these things.
Col 1:16 For by him all things were made, in heaven and on earth, things seen and things unseen, authorities, lords, rulers, and powers; all things were made by him and for him;
Deu 32:39 See now, I myself am he; there is no other god but me: giver of death and life, wounding and making well: and no one has power to make you free from my hand.
Rom 8:28 And we are conscious that all things are working together for good to those who have love for God, and have been marked out by his purpose.

B. Do not judge people: Since we do not fully understand the fact and how it happens regarding, persons, object and environment . Because, we are not all knowing, all present. So our judge often are biases and incorrect.

Luk 6:37 Be not judges of others, and you will not be judged: do not give punishment to others, and you will not get punishment yourselves: make others free, and you will be made free:
Rom 2:1 So you have no reason, whoever you are, for judging: for in judging another you are judging yourself, for you do the same things.
Jas 4:11 Do not say evil against one another, my brothers. He who says evil against his brother or makes himself his brother's judge, says evil against the law and is judging the law: and in judging the law you become, not a doer of the law but a judge.
Jas 4:12 There is only one judge and law-giver, even he who has the power of salvation and of destruction; but who are you to be your neighbour's judge?
Jas 5:9 Say no hard things against one another, brothers, so that you will not be judged; see, the judge is waiting at the doors.

C. Do not gossip: What is gossip, the talker and listener just talking something, that they don’t know what to do, and can not do anything about it, and the conversation is benefit to no one. This talk is just an empty word.


Mat 12:36 And I say to you that in the day when they are judged, men will have to give an account of every foolish word they have said.
Mat 12:37 For by your words will your righteousness be seen, and by your words you will be judged.

Do not think we are only blow off some steam, it should be fine, please review the verses below:

Mak 7:15 There is nothing outside the man which, going into him, is able to make him unclean: but the things which come out of the man are those which make the man unclean.
Mak 7:20 And he said, That which comes out of the man, that makes the man unclean.
Mak 7:21 Because from inside, from the heart of men, come evil thoughts and unclean pleasures,
Mak 7:22 The taking of goods and of life, broken faith between husband and wife, the desire of wealth, wrongdoing, deceit, sins of the flesh, an evil eye, angry words, pride, foolish acts:
Mak 7:23 All these evil things come from inside, and make the man unclean.

So, from the above verses, we know these gossip could corrupt you and, then, you can not

Pro 4:23 And keep watch over your heart with all care; so you will have life.

Example:

Complaint: You always put things anywhere
Replace: You are a neat boy, please put shoes in the shoe tray

Complaint: Why do you make dish so salty
Replace: Thanks for cooking, could put less salt in this dish next time

Judge: If you don’t study hard, you will be a janitor when you grow up
Replace: I like to know more about your school, could you share with me what  is happening in the school

Gossip: Do you know some one might have affair.
Replace: Do you have any spiritual enlightenment , could you share with me?